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The Obama inauguration not very "gay" anymore
Submitted by Carole Borges on Sun, 2008/12/21 - 7:13pm.
Many gay people are infuriated by Obama's willingness to give Rick Warren a prominant position in his inauguration menu. This is no small issue and the gay community is feeling disenfranchised and disappointed. They knew Obama was not a supporter of gay marriage and they didn't expect everything he did would please liberals, but they never expected him to put an Evangelical conservative minister who has pretty much said gay people are in the same catagory as child molesters right out in front.
One gay Obama supporter I know called the Obama camp to express his dismay, and he was told by someone on the Obama team to just "mute" the Warren segment. Now if that isn't dumb I don't know what is.
It's too bad Obama had to decide to open his ceremony with Warren. His building of a strong grassroots organization that he can call on in the coming months and years took a heavy blow here. Obama has left many in the gay community feeling a lack of loyalty to him now. I personally think it is very sad.
Identity politics are one of the roots of the divisiveness of our political culture in this country. While I am puzzled by the Warren selection, I think it represents so little viz the larger project/job that Obama faces. That's all it is: representative. It's just part of the larger Kabuki show to keep folks distracted. Or is it? Could it be that Obama is truly inclusive, rather than playing the worn out exclusiveness of identity politics? It's been said that Obama was the first gay candidate. That idea is as ridiculous as the claim that Clinton was the first black president.
Anyhow, who cares about Warren? Those who limit their political possibilities to one or two issues. I am much more concerned about the troubling pick of Salazar to the Interior post, but that's paying attention to the potential practices of the Obama presidency rather than the foundational symbolism of "The Presidency" that seems to keep this country in the 19th Century on almost every important issue we face.
True happiness is knowing you are a hypocrite. -- Ivor Cutler
Submitted by Carole Borges on Mon, 2008/12/22 - 1:49pm.
"Identity politics" sounds like a buzz word to me. Should someone happen to be the target of hate, perhaps at risk of being killed for even appearing gay, or unable to get information from their mate's doctor in matters of life and death, I think they have a total right to protest loudly the decisions the people they elect make if it affects their lives negatively. There is a place for civility and politeness, but when that is interpreted as enforcing silence or expecting people to look the other way that's asking too much. I support Obama. I worked for him and will continue to work for the causes he said he believed in, but when he makes a decision that is a bold affront to people I care deeply about, I will speak out and I urge others to do the same. The goal is to perfect a democracy, not to arrange a polite political tea party where the conversation is limited to teacakes and drapes.
I never said that one shouldn't be upset, but I do think that folks who are upset are confusing "campaigning" with "governing." OMG. A presidential candidate said something to get votes. No. Way. Look, I voted for Obama solely because he will bring back a modicum of good governance back to this country, not because fewer kittens will be killed at shelters. He's not a "gay rights" president and you would be hard pressed to make that case given his opinions on gay marriage alone. Will things be better for LGBT folks under Obama? Yes. Don't be fooled though into thinking that some grand utopia for LGBT people is nigh on the horizon. It isn't. As a matter of fact, there's no utopia on the horizon for anyone....
True happiness is knowing you are a hypocrite. -- Ivor Cutler
... Obama supports repealing "Don't Ask Don't Tell" and letting gay people serve openly in the military. I just hope he carried through on it.
Dammit, though, I wish we could have a President with the courage on the gay rights issue that Maryland had with our former Governor Parris Glendening. He went to the wall, fighting hard to get sexual orientation added to Maryland's anti-discrimination laws (and he succeeded), simply because he viewed it as the right thing to do.
You see, his brother was gay, and died of AIDS complications. His brother was in the Air Force, and basically had to lead a very closeted life, and the Governor believed that was what led to him contracting AIDS. So, he had a very personal reason to fight against discrimination based on sexual orientation (even though Maryland law wouldn't have protected his brother, since it wouldn't cover the Air Force.)
"I'm not a member of any organized political party. I'm a Democrat." -- Will Rogers
Which sort of speaks to my point. He's not going to get up there and give a fire-and-brimstone sermon during the invocation, so the homophobes are mad. He's up there at all, so some of the LGBT community is mad. I don't want to sound idealist about this -- because the last thing you could accuse me of is being an idealist -- but maybe, just maybe, Obama is giving voice to some folks to find some kind of common ground. Your neighbor may hate gays (and he really shouldn't), but you both are upset over the TVA flyash containment disaster. It doesn't have to be a permanent common ground. I am beginning to think that democracy just doesn't work if there is a permanent common ground.
True happiness is knowing you are a hypocrite. -- Ivor Cutler
Submitted by RayCapps on Mon, 2008/12/22 - 3:01pm.
I am beginning to think that democracy just doesn't work if there is a permanent common ground.
Thanks. That's one of the more profound things I've read lately. It's definitely going into my big list of significant thoughts - with full attributions of course.
Submitted by Carole Borges on Mon, 2008/12/22 - 3:58pm.
I am beginning to think that democracy just doesn't work if there is a permanent common ground
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Well, that makes sense seeing it is abnormal when everyone thinks the same way. I appreciate the fact that Obama wants to share the table with people of opposing views, but darn! Rick Warren is THE opening act. No matter what Obama says or anyone else says. this will mean an awful lot of Obama supporters will not be enjoying the inauguration in the way they would have had he chosen to do the touchy-feely thing with Warren in a different spot.
Inclusion yes, but offering high honors to someone like Rev. Warren? That's what is wrong with this plan.
Instead of total rejoicing there now will be in many corners of the USA a "well, we will just have to wait and see" attitude. I'm just sorry that this is happening on Obama's first day in office.
this will mean an awful lot of Obama supporters will not be enjoying the inauguration in the way they would have had he chosen to do the touchy-feely thing with Warren in a different spot.
Sorry, but Metulj's spot on. Obama won an election, not a war. He's in the business of brokering compromises, not dictating terms.
There's more to "sharing the table" than setting an extra place at the card table reserved for the kids.
Submitted by StaceyDiamond on Mon, 2008/12/22 - 7:07pm.
I have never personally read Warren's stances about gays, if anyone has a link I'd like to. I have seen interviews with Warren and his wife about their interest in helping AIDS victims in Africa and trips they've taken and he's interested in helping the poor. Warren isn't as bad as Dobson, but Dobson wouldn't show up anyway.
I know I said I wasn't going to post about this again, but this morning someone sent me a link to these pages and I thought they both showed why some people are so outraged against Obama honoring Rick Warren in the way he did.
I think it is also important to read this newspaper article as it shows just how dangerous the notion is that gays are somehow less than and should be disgraced, hated, and/or eliminated.
Submitted by redmondkr on Mon, 2008/12/22 - 8:45pm.
I have seen interviews with Warren and his wife about their interest in helping AIDS victims in Africa . . .
This frenzy that right wingers such as the Warrens, Jesse Helms, and Dubyuh have taken to help AIDS victims only came about after they discovered that the virus does not discriminate against straight people.
I watched a friend die of AIDS in 1992 when televangelists, including the beloved Billy Graham, were spouting that the virus was God's gift to mankind, a way to rid the earth of homosexuals and intravenous drug users.
My friend's family had disowned him at the age of seventeen when they found out he was gay. He was renting a room from one of my other friends when he was fired from his job as a convenience store clerk in the last year of his life. His landlord learned to administer the two daily IV's that slowed all the opportunistic diseases that plagued him. During his last week his mother decided that it was her duty to care for him even though she was scared to death of catching something. By that time he didn't recognize her anyway.
He died a month before this thirtieth birthday and his mother asked that his gay friends not attend the funeral. She did not get her wish.
Submitted by Carole Borges on Mon, 2008/12/22 - 9:48pm.
The way Rev. Warren and many other people think about this is so superficial and cerebral. We are talking about real kids here, once-beloved sons and daughters exiled from families; we're talking young teens beaten to death because they were seen as "queer"; we're talking about matters of life and death and so many people treat "the gay problem" like it was not very important. Like all they have to is, as Rev. Warren suggests, pray and they will be "cured". As if any gay kid had not done that already when they realized they were in fact gay.
I have listened to grown gay friends cry over the way their fathers hate them. I have read too often about gay teens being beaten to death, and I have heard the grief in the throat of lovers who were not even able to bury their long time partners. If the Rev. Warren thing seems small it is only because of ignorance about what life is like for many gay people today. I don't wish to belabor the point, so this is my last post on this subject. It is done. It will not be reversed. I just hope Obama realizes how deeply he has hurt people in the gay community and their supporters.
Submitted by Andy Axel on Tue, 2008/12/23 - 11:16am.
If the keening disappointment over this "compromise" invocation is any indication, a lot more of Obama's supporters are going to become thoroughly disillusioned when it comes to matters of policy. Anyone who's done any sort of reading of Obama's short stint in the Senate should be able to see that idealism - while readily at his lips - is not so readily on his agenda.
Instead of total rejoicing there now will be in many corners of the USA a "well, we will just have to wait and see" attitude.
Frankly, if his consistent votes to support the Iraq War during his tenure and his choice of Banksman Biden as running mate weren't indication enough, there's always his speech to AIPAC to give one pause...
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Submitted by Carole Borges on Tue, 2008/12/23 - 2:58pm.
I knew that. I expected that. The Rev. Warren thing though. That I didn't expect.
And now I really will stop whistling into the wind. Apparently not very many people seem to care about Obama honoring Rev. Warren in such a prominent way.
I just hope we don't have to spend the next few years listening to people chanting, "Well, what did you expect?" every time someone feels a need to speak about the Obama administration.
Submitted by Bbeanster on Tue, 2008/12/23 - 12:22pm.
I'm a political pragmatist, and it seems to me that this is beginning to sound like five year olds hollering "no fair!"and just fails to acknowlege reality. Anybody who didn't think that Obama was going to disappoint the Left just wasn't paying attention. Maybe he didn't have a Sistah Soldjah moment, but like Bill Clinton, Obama is a compromiser and a triangulator. He wouldn't have been elected otherwise.
I hate Prop. 8, and have gladly signed petitions attacking the LDS church's tax exempt status. But the referendum it sent a clear message to politicos -- passing something like that California means it's going to pass in any other state that runs it, too.
Nothing happens before its time, and although it's the job of activists to push the agenda forward, they need to decide whether they'd be better off had the other side won.
Submitted by robtbanks on Mon, 2009/01/19 - 8:54pm.
Obama--this is the guy who turned on his long-standing minister and who threw his dying grandmother under the bus, all for political expediency. His campaign was launched, in great measure, from the anti-war camp, but he has given every indication that he has become ready, willing, and able to serve the military-industrial complex and its cohort, the Israel lobby. Increasingly, the only "change" Obamamania represents is the new crop of gullible, naive supporters who put him in office.
Identity politics are one of the roots of the divisiveness of our political culture in this country. While I am puzzled by the Warren selection, I think it represents so little viz the larger project/job that Obama faces. That's all it is: representative. It's just part of the larger Kabuki show to keep folks distracted. Or is it? Could it be that Obama is truly inclusive, rather than playing the worn out exclusiveness of identity politics? It's been said that Obama was the first gay candidate. That idea is as ridiculous as the claim that Clinton was the first black president.
Anyhow, who cares about Warren? Those who limit their political possibilities to one or two issues. I am much more concerned about the troubling pick of Salazar to the Interior post, but that's paying attention to the potential practices of the Obama presidency rather than the foundational symbolism of "The Presidency" that seems to keep this country in the 19th Century on almost every important issue we face.
True happiness is knowing you are a hypocrite. -- Ivor Cutler
"Identity politics" sounds like a buzz word to me. Should someone happen to be the target of hate, perhaps at risk of being killed for even appearing gay, or unable to get information from their mate's doctor in matters of life and death, I think they have a total right to protest loudly the decisions the people they elect make if it affects their lives negatively. There is a place for civility and politeness, but when that is interpreted as enforcing silence or expecting people to look the other way that's asking too much. I support Obama. I worked for him and will continue to work for the causes he said he believed in, but when he makes a decision that is a bold affront to people I care deeply about, I will speak out and I urge others to do the same. The goal is to perfect a democracy, not to arrange a polite political tea party where the conversation is limited to teacakes and drapes.
I never said that one shouldn't be upset, but I do think that folks who are upset are confusing "campaigning" with "governing." OMG. A presidential candidate said something to get votes. No. Way. Look, I voted for Obama solely because he will bring back a modicum of good governance back to this country, not because fewer kittens will be killed at shelters. He's not a "gay rights" president and you would be hard pressed to make that case given his opinions on gay marriage alone. Will things be better for LGBT folks under Obama? Yes. Don't be fooled though into thinking that some grand utopia for LGBT people is nigh on the horizon. It isn't. As a matter of fact, there's no utopia on the horizon for anyone....
True happiness is knowing you are a hypocrite. -- Ivor Cutler
... Obama supports repealing "Don't Ask Don't Tell" and letting gay people serve openly in the military. I just hope he carried through on it.
Dammit, though, I wish we could have a President with the courage on the gay rights issue that Maryland had with our former Governor Parris Glendening. He went to the wall, fighting hard to get sexual orientation added to Maryland's anti-discrimination laws (and he succeeded), simply because he viewed it as the right thing to do.
You see, his brother was gay, and died of AIDS complications. His brother was in the Air Force, and basically had to lead a very closeted life, and the Governor believed that was what led to him contracting AIDS. So, he had a very personal reason to fight against discrimination based on sexual orientation (even though Maryland law wouldn't have protected his brother, since it wouldn't cover the Air Force.)
"I'm not a member of any organized political party. I'm a Democrat." -- Will Rogers
For what its worth, the hard core conservatives are upset with Warren for accepting.
"I'm not a member of any organized political party. I'm a Democrat." -- Will Rogers
Which sort of speaks to my point. He's not going to get up there and give a fire-and-brimstone sermon during the invocation, so the homophobes are mad. He's up there at all, so some of the LGBT community is mad. I don't want to sound idealist about this -- because the last thing you could accuse me of is being an idealist -- but maybe, just maybe, Obama is giving voice to some folks to find some kind of common ground. Your neighbor may hate gays (and he really shouldn't), but you both are upset over the TVA flyash containment disaster. It doesn't have to be a permanent common ground. I am beginning to think that democracy just doesn't work if there is a permanent common ground.
True happiness is knowing you are a hypocrite. -- Ivor Cutler
Thanks. That's one of the more profound things I've read lately. It's definitely going into my big list of significant thoughts - with full attributions of course.
Thanks again.
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Well, that makes sense seeing it is abnormal when everyone thinks the same way. I appreciate the fact that Obama wants to share the table with people of opposing views, but darn! Rick Warren is THE opening act. No matter what Obama says or anyone else says. this will mean an awful lot of Obama supporters will not be enjoying the inauguration in the way they would have had he chosen to do the touchy-feely thing with Warren in a different spot.
Inclusion yes, but offering high honors to someone like Rev. Warren? That's what is wrong with this plan.
Instead of total rejoicing there now will be in many corners of the USA a "well, we will just have to wait and see" attitude. I'm just sorry that this is happening on Obama's first day in office.
Sorry, but Metulj's spot on. Obama won an election, not a war. He's in the business of brokering compromises, not dictating terms.
There's more to "sharing the table" than setting an extra place at the card table reserved for the kids.
I have never personally read Warren's stances about gays, if anyone has a link I'd like to. I have seen interviews with Warren and his wife about their interest in helping AIDS victims in Africa and trips they've taken and he's interested in helping the poor. Warren isn't as bad as Dobson, but Dobson wouldn't show up anyway.
It's a short video. It's just a glimpse.
Link...
I know I said I wasn't going to post about this again, but this morning someone sent me a link to these pages and I thought they both showed why some people are so outraged against Obama honoring Rick Warren in the way he did.
I think it is also important to read this newspaper article as it shows just how dangerous the notion is that gays are somehow less than and should be disgraced, hated, and/or eliminated.
Link...
This frenzy that right wingers such as the Warrens, Jesse Helms, and Dubyuh have taken to help AIDS victims only came about after they discovered that the virus does not discriminate against straight people.
I watched a friend die of AIDS in 1992 when televangelists, including the beloved Billy Graham, were spouting that the virus was God's gift to mankind, a way to rid the earth of homosexuals and intravenous drug users.
My friend's family had disowned him at the age of seventeen when they found out he was gay. He was renting a room from one of my other friends when he was fired from his job as a convenience store clerk in the last year of his life. His landlord learned to administer the two daily IV's that slowed all the opportunistic diseases that plagued him. During his last week his mother decided that it was her duty to care for him even though she was scared to death of catching something. By that time he didn't recognize her anyway.
He died a month before this thirtieth birthday and his mother asked that his gay friends not attend the funeral. She did not get her wish.
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The way Rev. Warren and many other people think about this is so superficial and cerebral. We are talking about real kids here, once-beloved sons and daughters exiled from families; we're talking young teens beaten to death because they were seen as "queer"; we're talking about matters of life and death and so many people treat "the gay problem" like it was not very important. Like all they have to is, as Rev. Warren suggests, pray and they will be "cured". As if any gay kid had not done that already when they realized they were in fact gay.
I have listened to grown gay friends cry over the way their fathers hate them. I have read too often about gay teens being beaten to death, and I have heard the grief in the throat of lovers who were not even able to bury their long time partners. If the Rev. Warren thing seems small it is only because of ignorance about what life is like for many gay people today. I don't wish to belabor the point, so this is my last post on this subject. It is done. It will not be reversed. I just hope Obama realizes how deeply he has hurt people in the gay community and their supporters.
If the keening disappointment over this "compromise" invocation is any indication, a lot more of Obama's supporters are going to become thoroughly disillusioned when it comes to matters of policy. Anyone who's done any sort of reading of Obama's short stint in the Senate should be able to see that idealism - while readily at his lips - is not so readily on his agenda.
Frankly, if his consistent votes to support the Iraq War during his tenure and his choice of Banksman Biden as running mate weren't indication enough, there's always his speech to AIPAC to give one pause...
____________________________
Dirty deeds done dirt cheap! Special holidays, Sundays and rates!
I knew that. I expected that. The Rev. Warren thing though. That I didn't expect.
And now I really will stop whistling into the wind. Apparently not very many people seem to care about Obama honoring Rev. Warren in such a prominent way.
I just hope we don't have to spend the next few years listening to people chanting, "Well, what did you expect?" every time someone feels a need to speak about the Obama administration.
I'm a political pragmatist, and it seems to me that this is beginning to sound like five year olds hollering "no fair!"and just fails to acknowlege reality. Anybody who didn't think that Obama was going to disappoint the Left just wasn't paying attention. Maybe he didn't have a Sistah Soldjah moment, but like Bill Clinton, Obama is a compromiser and a triangulator. He wouldn't have been elected otherwise.
I hate Prop. 8, and have gladly signed petitions attacking the LDS church's tax exempt status. But the referendum it sent a clear message to politicos -- passing something like that California means it's going to pass in any other state that runs it, too.
Nothing happens before its time, and although it's the job of activists to push the agenda forward, they need to decide whether they'd be better off had the other side won.
Obama--this is the guy who turned on his long-standing minister and who threw his dying grandmother under the bus, all for political expediency. His campaign was launched, in great measure, from the anti-war camp, but he has given every indication that he has become ready, willing, and able to serve the military-industrial complex and its cohort, the Israel lobby. Increasingly, the only "change" Obamamania represents is the new crop of gullible, naive supporters who put him in office.
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